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Diving deeper into healing with EMDR Therapy

Online Psychotherapy for Deeper Healing — That Lasts

Virtual therapy across Ontario, Newfoundland & Labrador, Ireland, and the United Kingdom.

Trauma-informed & mind-body psychotherapy integrating EMDR therapy, Internal Family Systems, & nervous-system approaches. 

Free Consultation Booking for Online EMDR Therapy

Free 15 Minute Consultation

Charlie Gray, Registered Psychotherapist and EMDR therapist
Photo by Elin Larsgren
Online psychotherapy available in Ireland

Meet Your Therapist:

Welcome to this space where we make room for what lies beneath the surface.

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My work with individuals often engages with the bodymind system to manage mental health struggles and support the healing process.

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We go beyond talk-therapy and use evidence-based, neuroscience-informed modalities - such as EMDR Therapy and Polyvagal nervous-system healing and regulation. These approaches work with your body's built-in healing mechanisms and actually create long-lasting, transformational change - so you no longer have to rely on short-term strategies and support that feels like you are stuck or spiralling back to exactly where you started.

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Sessions are collaborative so that we can find tools that work for you to self-regulate and feel more free to be yourself, and move in a more grounded way through the many challenges that life can bring.

 

Our work together often includes EMDR, the nervous system, IFS, attachment, mindfulness, breathwork, somatic experiencing, and nature.​

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I will provide you with tools to enable you to cope with the challenges you are facing as we also make room for you to find and connect with the wisdom you already have within you. I will help you find your breath, find your footing, and gain tools to support your personal goals. Your needs are important, and this is a safe space where you can process your experiences.

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My practice specializes in (but is not limited to) supporting those who struggle with physical symptoms such as muscle tension, headaches, IBS, anxiety, chronic pain, burnout, exhaustion, etc. which are often related to or intensified by stress and trauma.

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​My practice seeks to be trauma-informed, socially just, accessible, culturally responsive, racially allied, compassionate, and rooted in anti-oppression, pro-liberation efforts to decolonize psychotherapy. I am open to accountability in these efforts. We will process collaboratively together as you move toward a deeper sense of health & connection.

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We meet online so that this work is accessible to wherever you are!

 

CLICK HERE to book a FREE 15-Minute Virtual Consultation if you would like to see if we are a good fit to work together on whatever it is you are struggling with.

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I look forward to meeting you very soon!

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Charlie (Carolyn) Gray, she/her

Registered Psychotherapist, College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO)

Canadian Certified Counsellor, Canadian Counselling & Psychotherapy Association (CCPA)

EMDR Canada Member, Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing International Association (EMDRIA)

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Online EMDR Therapy

Evidence-Based & Neuroscience-Researched EMDR Therapy for Trauma & Mental Health Challenges

Therapeutic Approaches & Modalities

Therapeutic approaches and modalities

What kinds of therapy can we work with?

Primary Therapy Modalities:

Other Integrated Approaches:

Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR)

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Attachment

Nervous-

System Regulation (Polyvagal)

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Breathwork

Compassion Focused

Culturally Sensitive

Emotionally-Focused Therapy

​DBT Skills

Mindfulness-Based

Multicultural

Nature & Eco-Therapy

​Social Justice Centered

Somatics

Strength-Based

Mental health concerns and life experiences addressed in therapy

What can we work on together?

Affirming & Compassionate Care:

ADHD

Autism

Anxiety

Burnout

Chronic Pain & Fatigue

Coping Skills

Disability Allied

Gender

Grief

Life Transitions

Neurodivergence

Physical Symptoms

Regulation

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Spirituality

Sports Performance

Stress

Trauma

Women's Issues

Queer Allied

Racial Justice Allied

Holistic, mind-body approach to psychotherapy

My approach is holistic and therefore does not solely focus on the mind. The brain is one organ in a beautiful and complex interconnected system that all impacts mental health, and is impacted by mental health.​

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While some of our work will include talking, processing and reflecting, we will use these in tandem with EMDR, nervous-system regulation, somatic & breathwork, etc..

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Just as our brains are interconnected with the rest of the body, so are we interconnected with our communities and environment. We keep these contexts, relationships, and systems in mind as we work together.

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We will work collaboratively and entirely with your needs, comfort levels, and window of tolerance as priority to support your mental health. We work together towards your sense of healing, balance, restored energy, presence, and resiliency.

How I work:

Charlie Gray freediving and breathwork experience

In addition to my accreditation as a Registered Psychotherapist and EMDRIA-Trained Therapist, and former Humanitarian Relief Aid Worker, I am also a certified Freediving Instructor. With 7 years of experience, this work compliments my therapy work as it includes specialties in breathwork, relaxation & nervous system training.

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Freediving has taken me personally on a wild and wonderful journey of knowing myself better, while bringing my healing and well-being into balance. It has helped me find strength I never knew I had - physically and mentally.

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Through this work I have learned that relaxation, awareness and emotional resiliency and regulation are a skills that can be practiced and acquired - and that our bodies have the ability to learn them (and the inherent desire to)! They just need the right conditions and support.

 

The combination of being immersed in the natural world, and learning these skillsets can be incredibly powerful for coping with and healing stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma.

Complementary Skills & Experience:

Demonstration of EMDR Therapy Bilateral Stimulation
EMDRIA-Approved Training
EMDRIA membership badge

Virtual Therapy Sessions, Locations & Fees

Free Virtual Consultation

No cost, 15 minutes.

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Book a free 15-minute video consultation to see if you think our work together would fit your needs.

Full Online Therapy Session

Sessions are Virtual

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Standard or EMDR Therapy session 

50 minutes, $170

(no tax added. Canadian Fee)

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I offer online psychotherapy sessions to therapy participants who are in Canada, Ireland or the UK

Extended EMDR Therapy Session

EMDR Virtual Therapy​

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​Optional Extended EMDR Therapy

Intensive Session

80 minutes, $240

(no tax added. Canadian fee)

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Contact & Booking Form
Charlie Gray, Registered Psychotherapist
Photo by Nanna Kreutzmann

Bookings & Contact

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Thich Nhat Hanh Inspirational Quote

Affirming, Culturally Responsive & Anti-Oppressive Care

Land Acknowledgement

Land Acknowledgement

"The trees act not as individuals, but somehow as a collective. Exactly how they do this, we don’t yet know. But what we see is the power of unity. What happens to one happens to us all. We can starve together or feast together.”


― Dr. Robin Wall Kimmerer, Potawatomi

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"Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect."

 

― Chief Seattle, Duwamish

​No one lives in a vacuum, and neither does our mental health... In the west, we tend to still be entrenched in cultural worldviews that understand humans to exist as individuals without much mutual impact to one another or their environments. More and more western scientific research understands this to be false, while traditional ways of knowing have understood the interconnectedness – the wholeness – of all things for a very long time. As we cannot understand our mental health by only looking at our brain and must include the interwovenness of the whole bodily system, we also cannot understand our health as an individuals without considering our lives within the living organisms of the collective, of our natural world. This includes systems of oppression, our intersections of identities, our relationships, our ansestors and collective traumas and triumphs. I am a caucasian (mixed European heritage), neurodivergent, cis-gendered, queer, able-bodied woman, and was born, raised, educated, and have worked on the traditional Turtle Island territories (aka Canada) of the Anishinaabe, Wyandot, Haudenosaunee, Attiwonderonk, and Mississaugas of the Credit First Nations peoples, under the treaties of  Treaty 3, 13A, 19, The Haldimand Treaty, and the Williams Treaty. I currently work primarily online, based between the traditional territories of the Muzziena Bedouin Tribe of South Sinai, and the Irish lands of the Republic of Ireland with longstanding Indigenous roots. As a practitioner, I recognize the vital importance of land and its history for therapy participants, my communities, and my own life. As a therapist, I often incorporate nature-based practices. As an ally I have a responsibility to honour the stories, peoples, and creatures of the lands we occupy, our interconnectedness within the natural world. I welcome my duty to continuously self-reflect and maintain relationship and ongoing education in efforts to seek less harm in the ever-present impacts of capitalism and white supremacy. My practice seeks to be trauma-informed, socially just, accessible, culturally responsive, rooted in efforts to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy. I am open to accountability in these efforts. Resources: Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants, Dr. Robin Wall Kimmerer https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/17465709 Indigenous Healing: Exploring Traditional Paths, Rupert Ross https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/392410/indigenous-healing-by-rupert-ross/9780143191100 Decolonizing Therapy, Dr. Jennifer Mullan https://www.decolonizingtherapy.com/ Territory Acknowledgement https://native-land.ca/resources/territory-acknowledgement/

Nervous-System Regulation in therapy
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