


Online Psychotherapy for Deeper Healing — That Lasts
Virtual therapy across Ontario, Newfoundland & Labrador, Ireland, and the United Kingdom.
Trauma-informed, neurodivergent-affirming & mind-body psychotherapy integrating EMDR therapy, Internal Family Systems, & nervous-system approaches.
Free 15 Minute Consultation

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Meet Your Therapist:
Welcome to this space where we make room for what lies beneath the surface.
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I work with adults experiencing anxiety, trauma, burnout, emotional overwhelm, and the many ways stress can affect the body and mind.
I also offer neurodivergent-affirming psychotherapy for adults with suspected or diagnosed ADHD or Autism. My approach is collaborative, trauma-informed, and rooted in the understanding that your experiences, body, nervous system, relationships, and environment are interconnected.
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We go beyond talk therapy. I integrate EMDR therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), nervous-system regulation (polyvagal), attachment-focused therapy, mindfulness, breathwork, and somatic approaches.
Together, we explore what may be happening beneath the surface while developing practical tools to help you regulate, cope with challenges, and feel more grounded and connected to yourself.
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Therapy is not about fitting you into a particular approach. We work collaboratively to find what works for you. I will offer tools to support you through the challenges you are facing while also making room for you to discover and connect with the wisdom, strengths, and capacity you already carry within you.
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My practice often supports people experiencing anxiety, chronic stress, burnout, exhaustion, emotional dysregulation, relationship struggles, low self-esteem, muscle tension, headaches, IBS and digestive concerns, chronic pain, and other physical or emotional experiences that may be related to or intensified by stress and trauma.
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I believe therapy should be accessible, compassionate, socially just, culturally responsive, racially allied, neurodivergent-affirming, and affirming of diverse sexual and gender identities. My practice is rooted in trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, and pro-liberation principles, including ongoing efforts to decolonize psychotherapy. I remain open to accountability and continued learning in this work.
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I will help you find your breath, find your grounding, and develop tools to support the goals that matter to you.
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We meet online, making virtual psychotherapy accessible wherever you are.
CLICK HERE to book a FREE 15-Minute Virtual Consultation if you would like to see if we are a good fit to work together on whatever it is you are looking for support with.
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I look forward to meeting you.
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Charlie (Carolyn) Gray, she/her
Registered Psychotherapist, College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO)
Canadian Certified Counsellor, Canadian Counselling & Psychotherapy Association (CCPA)
EMDR Canada Member, Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing International Association (EMDRIA)
Therapeutic Approaches & Modalities

What kinds of therapy can we work with?
Primary Therapy Modalities:
Other Integrated Approaches:
Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR)
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Attachment
Nervous-
System Regulation (Polyvagal)
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Breathwork
Compassion Focused
Culturally Sensitive
Emotionally-Focused Therapy
​DBT Skills
Mindfulness-Based
Multicultural
Nature & Eco-Therapy
​Social Justice Centered
Somatics
Strength-Based
What can we work on together?
Affirming & Compassionate Care:
ADHD
Autism
Anxiety
Burnout
Chronic Pain & Fatigue
Coping Skills
Disability Allied
Gender
Grief
Life Transitions
Neurodivergence
Physical Symptoms
Regulation
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Spirituality
Sports Performance
Stress
Trauma
Women's Issues
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

My approach is holistic and therefore does not solely focus on the mind. The brain is one organ in a beautiful and complex interconnected system that all impacts mental health, and is impacted by mental health.​
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While some of our work will include talking, processing and reflecting, we will use these in tandem with EMDR, nervous-system regulation, somatic & breathwork, etc..
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Just as our brains are interconnected with the rest of the body, so are we interconnected with our communities and environment. We keep these contexts, relationships, and systems in mind as we work together.
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We will work collaboratively and entirely with your needs, comfort levels, and window of tolerance as priority to support your mental health. We work together towards your sense of healing, balance, restored energy, presence, and resiliency.
How I work:

In addition to my accreditation as a Registered Psychotherapist and EMDRIA-Trained Therapist, and former Humanitarian Relief Aid Worker, I am also a certified Freediving Instructor. With 7 years of experience, this work compliments my therapy work as it includes specialties in breathwork, relaxation & nervous system training.
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Freediving has taken me personally on a wild and wonderful journey of knowing myself better, while bringing my healing and well-being into balance. It has helped me find strength I never knew I had - physically and mentally.
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Through this work I have learned that relaxation, awareness and emotional resiliency and regulation are a skills that can be practiced and acquired - and that our bodies have the ability to learn them (and the inherent desire to)! They just need the right conditions and support.
The combination of being immersed in the natural world, and learning these skillsets can be incredibly powerful for coping with and healing stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Complementary Skills & Experience:
Virtual Therapy Sessions, Locations & Fees
Free Virtual Consultation
No cost, 15 minutes.
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Book a free 15-minute video consultation to see if you think our work together would fit your needs.
Full Online Therapy Session
Sessions are Virtual
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Standard or EMDR Therapy session
50 minutes, $170
(no tax added. Canadian Fee)
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I offer online psychotherapy sessions to therapy participants who are in Canada, Ireland or the UK
Extended EMDR Therapy Session
EMDR Virtual Therapy​
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​Optional Extended EMDR Therapy
Intensive Session
80 minutes, $240
(no tax added. Canadian fee)
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Bookings & Contact
info@beneaththesurfacepsychotherapy.com
Or fill-out the contact form below:



Affirming, Culturally Responsive & Anti-Oppressive Care
Land Acknowledgement

"The trees act not as individuals, but somehow as a collective. Exactly how they do this, we don’t yet know. But what we see is the power of unity. What happens to one happens to us all. We can starve together or feast together.”
― Dr. Robin Wall Kimmerer, Potawatomi
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"Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect."
― Chief Seattle, Duwamish
​No one lives in a vacuum, and neither does our mental health... In the west, we tend to still be entrenched in cultural worldviews that understand humans to exist as individuals without much mutual impact to one another or their environments. More and more western scientific research understands this to be false, while traditional ways of knowing have understood the interconnectedness – the wholeness – of all things for a very long time. As we cannot understand our mental health by only looking at our brain and must include the interwovenness of the whole bodily system, we also cannot understand our health as an individuals without considering our lives within the living organisms of the collective, of our natural world. This includes systems of oppression, our intersections of identities, our relationships, our ansestors and collective traumas and triumphs. I am a caucasian (mixed European heritage), neurodivergent, cis-gendered, queer, able-bodied woman, and was born, raised, educated, and have worked on the traditional Turtle Island territories (aka Canada) of the Anishinaabe, Wyandot, Haudenosaunee, Attiwonderonk, and Mississaugas of the Credit First Nations peoples, under the treaties of Treaty 3, 13A, 19, The Haldimand Treaty, and the Williams Treaty. I currently work primarily online, based between the traditional territories of the Muzziena Bedouin Tribe of South Sinai, and the Irish lands of the Republic of Ireland with longstanding Indigenous roots. As a practitioner, I recognize the vital importance of land and its history for therapy participants, my communities, and my own life. As a therapist, I often incorporate nature-based practices. As an ally I have a responsibility to honour the stories, peoples, and creatures of the lands we occupy, our interconnectedness within the natural world. I welcome my duty to continuously self-reflect and maintain relationship and ongoing education in efforts to seek less harm in the ever-present impacts of capitalism and white supremacy. My practice seeks to be trauma-informed, socially just, accessible, culturally responsive, rooted in efforts to decolonize the practice of psychotherapy. I am open to accountability in these efforts. Resources: Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants, Dr. Robin Wall Kimmerer https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/17465709 Indigenous Healing: Exploring Traditional Paths, Rupert Ross https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/392410/indigenous-healing-by-rupert-ross/9780143191100 Decolonizing Therapy, Dr. Jennifer Mullan https://www.decolonizingtherapy.com/ Territory Acknowledgement https://native-land.ca/resources/territory-acknowledgement/

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